You have designed a motif, a program, or even vintage wedding dresses for your wedding, are your family and friends involved into? Have you already selected mother of the bride clothes? Find meaningful ways to involve them without asking them to be official members of your bridal party. Invite them to do a reading at the ceremony, pass out wedding programs, seat guests, or keep you company (and lend a helping hand) while you’re putting on unique wedding dresses. You will find they will be very pleased to help you.